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Colitas - > Just a Quote -> Over Reacted or Appropriate Actions
Over Reacted or Appropriate Actions
I had an little adventure yesterday.  I am not one to be dramatic about things.  But sometimes with my kids I just can't help it.  I know they fall, they get bruises and cuts and boo boos.  So I am not one to rush to the doctor.  Well, I was on the phone yesterday trying to get car insurance cheaper (btw, anyone with AAA might want to check them out....I am saving over $600 yr with more coverage).  My little one (21 mths old) had fell or slipped in the kitchen.  He heard the thud and he started crying.  He came over to me with his hand on his ear crying and comforted him and stopped.  I continued my conversation, which I have guilt now, when I got off the phone he was playing and being happy.  I went to check his ear thinking it would red, and to surprise he had blood coming out.  Not just a spot, but coming out of his canal down his jawline.  Now here comes the dark thoughts...he's going to be deaf in that ear, he has brain damage, he'll die, etc.  Yes a little over the top, but these are the scenarios I come up with.  I checked his ear for a cut but didn't want to poke into it.  Well, I rushed him to the ER thinking the worst.  And everything was fine.  His eardrum was intact and he had a scrap in his ear canal that skin was completely gone.  Since I didn't see him fall, I didn't know if he fell on something or if he fell off the chair and hit his head so hard his ear was bleeding.  Well, did I over react?  Should I have had waited to see if the bleeding would stop, because it did by the time the doc saw him.  Or are there other over protected parents out there that would have done the same? 
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posted by Colitas on Thursday, December 13, 2007 at 08:47 AM
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posted by GINGER on Dec 13, 2007 at 03:06 PM
Definitely not overprotective-you were being a good mom!That's just part of the job!We aren't doctors and we can't know for sure unless we take them to get checked.You were right to worry.The one time that I ignored that voice in my head that said to worry,my son ended up getting hospitalized.Err on the side of caution!
posted by weebles on Dec 13, 2007 at 02:13 PM
An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. You did what you had to do. You'd have never forgiven yourself if it was something worse and you had waited.
posted by Joty on Dec 13, 2007 at 01:37 PM
I don't think you were being over-protective at all. Blood coming from anywhere is scary especially when it's your child. At 21 months, I'm sure he couldn't explain in detail what happened, so I would have done exactly what you did. Just add it to your list of 'The Joys of Parenthood'.
posted by olivia on Dec 13, 2007 at 01:32 PM

Bloody lip, bloody nose, bloody mouth, OK.  Bloody coming from the ear or eye.....not good.

posted by countygirl on Dec 13, 2007 at 11:30 AM
UM NO! I would have freaked out if my kid had blood coming out of his ear knowing good and well what that could mean! You did not over react in the least. I don't think you were being over protective I think you were being smart!!
posted by eekitsaspider on Dec 13, 2007 at 10:08 AM
Colitas, you did exactly what every Mother would do! If it was me and my child I would of done the same exact thing you did. I think you are a great Mom and I am glad that you took your son to the e.r., Thankgoodness he was fine.
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