Countrygirl - we should fight the battle for recognizing proud, smart women everywhere we find an opportunity.  And, just for the record, I think its great when lovers appreciate each other's bodies. I don't have anything against boobs - mine or yours.   But why oh why, would you want to spend any time gawking at someone else's lover?  And, why oh why, would you want to display your goods to someone other than your own personnal admirer?  Goodness, how much sexual attention does one individual need?  And, why oh why, would you want that kind of attention from a stranger?  Yukky.

Gee - I got more questions then answers. 

I get what you are saying Lori, but unless you cover I don't think you can justify the direction you are taking. Plus, I'm sorry but guys will and do look or gawk as you put it, girls do to I'm sure. That's just reality and it will NEVER change. I have no problem with the looking anyway... it's harmless. Men will look regardless of what you are wearing... chances are if you're wearing less they just look longer! lol

I do have to say though that I'm glad they panic button was mentioned in the article because they've just peaked the interest of every perv in town. ......... Don't be so sensitive lol..... I'm talking about the ones with problems!!!

Hey i remember when the Branch Office Bar put a pole in there and had pole dancing contests... that started a frenzy...I love Tehachapi, so stiff.  They had a pregnant bikini contest down here it was all in fun.  Geez....go to the beach and there are bikinis everywhere.  Its a freekin bikini, whats the big deal?

Countygirl~what if your husband did drink coffee?  Would that be a problem in your marriage if he went to Java Mama's and bought coffee from a bikini clad barista?  If so, why?

Exactly - thank you all for agreeing with me.  Bikinis at the beach - perfect beach wear.  And - my point was not from the guy's point of view.  We all know most of you'll look at anything, anytime.  But will you stand in line more than once to see Jane's boobs?  My point is from a woman's point of view - who wants some yukky creep gawking at you? 

Sex sells - but this is the bottom rung on the ladder.  Once you come down that low, there's no place else to go.  Java Mama will be gone before next spring.  Who's up for the bet? 

Re: gawking.  The problem for all women is you usually can't tell the creep from the nice guy appreciating his "eye candy,"  unless of course he has his hands in his pants. 

OK - I just yukky'ed myself over the top.  I'm still up for the bet.  Curly?  Bigdog?  Greg? 

Jewels- I remember the amateur stripper nights at the Branch Office too!

Now to answer your question, Would I mind if my husband got coffee from there?  Well now that would depend. I'm not really the jealous type, BUT if he was only going there because of the bikini's not because he really liked their tea or their cinnamon rolls I'd be irritated because I think that that kind of behavior is disrespectful when you're married.  I know I have nothing to worry about though....:) and that would still apply even if he drank coffee!

 I just had to point out that I was talking about him going there on a regular basis of his own accord.. If he went once out of curiosity or something I could care less, if he was with a friend who wanted to go there.....I could care less... get my drift.