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Mind your manners...
It was a mantra I frequently heard repeated as I was growing up...Mind your manners! (Not that I was a bad kid!)
What do you consider polite, unpolite and downright rude? What little social faux pas just pushes your buttons? What behaviors do you find perfectly acceptable behind closed doors but just abhor in public, at work or online, or maybe on the road? 12 comments from 8 users
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posted by
Sparks
on Nov 28, 2006 at 03:50 PM
Polite = selflessness and embracing diversity... a smile Impolite = abuse and/or neglect for oneself or of others Pushes my buttons = intolerance of people different than oneself and hatred. Acceptable behaviors indoors but not in public = nail trimming, farting, nose picking, butt scratching, loud music, exposing butt cracks, sexual conduct.... although a streaker now and again may be fun. posted by
gillfish
on Nov 28, 2006 at 04:08 PM
Family gatherings always include food. The most inconciderate thing someone could do is to take the best of what is offered before the guest of honor or my mom and dad were served. I have a sister who takes a large helping, not sizing up the group and the amount of food offered. That has always irked the rest of us but we say nothing. We are a meek bunch.Growing up with five other siblings in a poor household food was always an issue. My mom never made enough. The unspoken rule was -do not take too much, don't take seconds before everyone has had a helping and then still do not take another plate of food if there is only a small amount left until you know that no one else wants it. Again, this rude sister ignored the rules. I can't stand inconsideration in others but I let it go. There is too much pain and suffering going on in this world to get upset over the small stuff and I lump most things rude in the small stuff catagory. Then again I am pretty meek. posted by
editor
on Nov 28, 2006 at 05:25 PM
I should have mentioned that one of my personal "pet peeves" is people who use all CAPS in emails and blogs. It's like having someone scream in your face.
I'm also not a fan of people who can't look me in the eye when they speak to me. posted by
Sparks
on Nov 28, 2006 at 05:59 PM
editor... Oh yes, the all caps or large bold fonts.... "Yes. I can see you screaming at me" CLICK... lol
posted by
anonymous
on Nov 29, 2006 at 10:35 AM
One of my biggest pet peeves is people who talk, whisper, play with their phone etc., during a concert performance. My child is a member of the school's music program and I have attended every one of his concerts. It never fails, at every concert I will find very rude and inconsiderate people who choose to make noise during a performance. Most of the time these people happen to be fellow students, in which case I blame their parents for not teaching them courtesy and politeness. However, I find adults on many occasions talking to one another, talking on cell phones etc., while the children are performing. I can't imagine anything being so important that it warrants talking during a performance instead of waiting a couple of minutes for the music to end before chit chatting with their neighbor. These kids work hard learning their instruments and music and deserve undivided attention during their performance. If people feel the urgency to fiddle around, then they should go outside or stay at home.
posted by
editor
on Nov 29, 2006 at 10:38 AM
Bravo!
What about people who talk on their cell phones in a check out line? posted by
jewels
on Nov 29, 2006 at 11:24 AM
oh what really gets me is when a driver knows he has to get off at the next freeway exit but is 3 lanes over...Zooms over cuts in front of you to barely make the offramp!!!!! and they are on their cell phone too? oooooooooooooooooooooo that makes me mad. San Diego traffic!!! @#$%
posted by
mimi
on Nov 29, 2006 at 01:00 PM
Cell phones in general just piss me off. If people were considerate with them, it wouldn't be so bad. But I can't tell you how many times I've been sitting in a certain Japanese restaurant in town only to hear someone's cell phone ring. Then that person goes on to have an overly-loud conversation with whomever is on the other end. Please, have the decency to go outside and talk if it is urgent or ask if you can call them back at a better time. To me, this is one of the rudest things you could possibly do!
posted by
gillfish
on Nov 29, 2006 at 03:13 PM
I have observed people standing up to the rude, inconciderate person only to be told to F-off. I'm talking all ages. Unbelievable!
posted by
Blaze
on Nov 30, 2006 at 04:06 PM
Mimi you will love this one. Earlier this month I attended a training class that was hosted by a software company that sells a product that we use at the company I work for. This room was packed with about 20 other "professionals" from different companies, all of which use the same product as part of their job. During the class while the instructor was in the middle of his presentation, somebody's cell phone rings. That in itself is very rude because everybody should at least turn their phones to silent if not off. But I was willing to give the guy some grace because he probably just forgot to make the switch. I have made that mistake myself before and it's embarrassing because I know it's an interruption. But what does he do? He actually answers it and carries on a conversation while the instructor is conducting business! What an a**! Cell phone rudeness is a huge pet peeve for me.
posted by
mimi
on Nov 30, 2006 at 10:20 PM
Blaze, that is awful! What a jerk. There should be some standard etiquette on cell phone use, though I suppose if people can't even use common sense or courtesy, they would never pay any attention to anything!
posted by
tehachapidad
on Dec 4, 2006 at 04:49 AM
Manners? Is that truely a word? Manners have truely gone bye-bye. The days of chivalry is no longer.There is a shortage of manners in this world. People with cell phones are a pain. There is a time and place to use them. Driving is not one of those times. I know I open the door for my wife and I am attempting to teach my children the difference between right and wrong. All I know is that manners begin at home with children and there parents. "Do as I say-Not as I do" is a bad statement. If you want your children to be good you the adult need to be good. Where do you think kids get there manners-Eh? By watching there parents!!! The copout is "They saw it on TV/Video Game". Well the parents provide those TV's and games. I know we are in a ever changing world and most parents want the best for there kids. But darn't we need to be continuously vigilant with our children due to they are our future. Teach your kids manners and use them yourself. Stop and think about whos watching before you do something. And remember- no matter what GOD is always watching your behavior.
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