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Restraints
Lastnite when i was putting my groceries into my car another car pulled up next to me and parked. I noticed that there were 5 people in the car 2 of which were children. One child was about 6 months old and the other arround 2-3 years old. I also noticed that a woman was holding the baby in her lap. Neither child had a car seat or a seat belt, but i did notice the 3 other passengers had one on and were taking them off. Today in the bakersfield news website there is an article about 2 women that were in an accident and failed to restrain an infant girl. Due to the accident the infant girl died. The driver was arrested for manslaughter and i believe the mother was arrested for child endangerment. The article is at www.turnto23.com for more information. I personally do not understand how a person would allow a child to be in a vehicle without proper restraints. I also feel that it is child endangerment and the driver should be jailed. How does everyone else feel about this? Can a citizen report a matter like this to the police? 24 comments from 12 users
posted by
eekitsaspider
on Feb 28, 2007 at 08:10 AM
Here is another question on this subject: If the mother of the baby had enough time to call her mother to come over so she could take her to the hospital then why didn't she have time to call 911 or find a car seat? Just seems like there was alot of time wasted there and not enough time spent on thinking about the safety of her child... posted by
beekeeper
on Feb 27, 2007 at 10:09 PM
On another note, I have an "aquaintence" who on a recent cross country road trip, kept her 7 month old strapped in the car seat the entire way. When it was time to breast feed, instead of having the driver pull the vehicle to side of the road, or, goodness sakes, "holding the baby" to feed him, she would, kid you not, get up in the back of the SUV so that she was nearly standing and feed the baby by standing ove him in his seat while the vehicle was in motion. I know this example is extreme, but it happens too. "Negligence" has its obverse. posted by
Colitas
on Feb 27, 2007 at 09:53 PM
posted by
babydoll
on Feb 27, 2007 at 09:45 PM
posted by
ChristineFroehlich
on Feb 27, 2007 at 09:38 PM
posted by
ShaneThePain
on Feb 27, 2007 at 07:32 PM
I disagree with beekeeper 110%!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There is never ever a reason not to have a child in a car seat!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They should have called 911, they would have had an ambulance there within 6 minutes. They decided to rush to the hospital speeding and running red lights instead. I have personally seen the damage done to kids by uncaring or negligent parents. It takes less then a minute to put a kid in a car seat. Requiring a car seat is not an extreme law!! I have never had to unbuckle a dead person, or take a dead baby out of a car seat. I have picked up way to many off the road however! We need to prosecute parents that don't do the right thing. A $60 fine is way to little! Why do we require people to take a test to drive a car, but any idiot can have a child? If you see people driving with kids improperly restrained, it is your job as a responsible person to call 911 and report them! After mom and grandmother get out of jail then let them make the rounds talking about car seats.
posted by
sushisoo
on Feb 27, 2007 at 05:04 PM
Sadly, the enforcement of safety seat laws only seems to come to the fore when there's been a tragedy like this. It might be more effective to ask families who have suffered from these tragedies to help promote the use of safety seats. I used to be allowed to help "drive' when I was a kid also. And riding in the back of the truck was the absolute coolest although I was never allowed to sit on top of the wheel wells. But we learned from those mistakes, sadly after many innocent lives were lost. Which is why we have these kinds of restraints now - although Consumer Reports recently made then withdrew a claim that said most infant car seats failed safety crash tests. I know I often struggled with installing them correctly and worried about it endlessly when my kids were smaller. Here's a link with more info: www.nhtsa.dot.gov/portal/site/nhtsa/menuitem.9f8c 7d6359e0e9bbbf30811060008a0c/ posted by
eekitsaspider
on Feb 27, 2007 at 04:51 PM
Yes i agree they are going through enough with losing the child. That is something i would never want to experience and it saddens me a great deal to hear of someone losing a child. But here is a comment that someone said when i was telling the story to them " if the mother was that bad off with an asthma attack then why didnt they just call an ambulance?". Everyone makes mistakes and it is sad that it cost a child's life. But lastnite when the people had 2 children without a car seat and they were at a store to shop there is NO EXCUSE for that whatsover in my opinion. Sure back in the day there was no such thing as car seats or seat belts and children were allowed to sit on dad's lap. But today we have learned that it is dangerous and can kill and that is a risk i am not willing to take. And i cannot understand why anyone would take the chance. posted by
beekeeper
on Feb 27, 2007 at 04:16 PM
We are a little extreme with our car seat laws. They are necessary in accidents, and you never know when an accident is coming. But there was a day when kids could sit in the front seat, and I remember sitting on dad's lap "driving" too. At 5 or 6 years old. Not that safe... sure. We all know that now. In this case, however, the mother and grandmother are just concerned about the baby. They did their best. They lost her. Aren't they going through enough? |