http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199 While I remain skeptical over the tears of Ellen DeGeneres because of using her position in the media to take Marina Batkis to task, suspecting there may be more going on between the two women than a simple failure to adhere to a contract, it should not be forgotten there is a victim here, a poor little doggy that cannot speak for itself. This is where the attention should be focused as all animal lovers agree. These poor creatures have no other voice to speak on their behalf but that which human beings give them. &nbsp; Whether or not there is more going on between Ellen and Marina than we are being told, whether the publicity is the end game or not, the really important issue of pet ownership and responsibility reminds me how careful anyone should be when it comes to the care of pets. Take the case of Mr. Cavendish and his beloved beagle Merl for example that appeared in The Weedpatch Gazette some time ago. After reading this heart moving tale I&rsquo;m sure you will agree the media, and in this case especially Ms. DeGeneres, should display a more responsible grasp of the priorities: Death of a Beagle Mr. Cavendish was very anxious to pick up his pet beagle, Merl, from obedience school. It wasn&rsquo;t that Merl was really disobedient, but he had acquired a few bad habits and Mr. Cavendish, being such a gentle person, just couldn&rsquo;t bring himself to properly discipline his little friend. So, enrolling him in obedience school seemed the best solution. Entering the school&rsquo;s office he was greeted by the headmaster, Doctor Diabole. With a warm handshake, the good Doctor bid Mr. Cavendish welcome and invited him to take a seat. &ldquo;Well, now, Mr. Cavendish, how very kind of you to drop in. I assume you&rsquo;re here to inquire about Merl?&rdquo; &ldquo;Why yes, of course, Doctor Diabole. I know I should have called before coming by, but I have been very anxious to see Merl and I had hoped he would be ready by now for me to take home. It has been very lonely for me without him and I&rsquo;m certain he misses me as well.&rdquo; With a polite soft and delicate cough Doctor Diabole cleared his throat, and averting his eyes from Mr. Cavendish slowly folded his hands on his desk, and with bowed head as though reluctant to speak replied, &ldquo;Ah, my dear Mr. Cavendish I&rsquo;m afraid I have some unfortunate news.&rdquo; &ldquo;What is it Doctor, Merl isn&rsquo;t sick is he?&rdquo; &ldquo;No, no, nothing of the sort. As a matter of fact Merl is dead.&rdquo; Mr. Cavendish was stunned! What? Merl dead? How did it happen? He couldn&rsquo;t believe what he was hearing. Merl dead? Attempting to comprehend the magnitude what he had just heard, tears suddenly filled his eyes and Mr. Cavendish struggled to control himself&hellip; his Merl, dead? It simply could not be true! He could not be hearing Doctor Diabole correctly! There must be some terrible mistake! Doctor Diabole arose, and stepping out from behind his desk went over and put a comforting arm around the shoulders of the sobbing Mr. Cavendish. &ldquo;My dear sir, I&rsquo;m sorry to have to tell you this but Merl proved incorrigible. In fact, he consistently failed an essential course on properly piddling. You know, of course, how a rolled up newspaper is used to gently correct a dog?&rdquo; &ldquo;Yes, I know,&rdquo; Mr. Cavendish replied with an effort past the lump in his throat all the while wiping his eyes with his handkerchief. &ldquo;Well,&rdquo; Doctor Diabole continued, &ldquo;Merl just didn&rsquo;t respond well to such a training technique utilizing a newspaper. So I was forced to apply sterner measures with a whip. But even this proved insufficient and finally left me no choice but to beat him with a baseball bat.&rdquo; &ldquo;WHAT!&rdquo; Mr. Cavendish roared, jerking up from his chair. &ldquo;Now, now, Mr. Cavendish, I understand your concern, I truly do, but really, we simply cannot have dogs piddling just anywhere, now can we?&rdquo; &ldquo;But, but, beating Merl to death with a baseball bat! You can&rsquo;t possibly be serious! This is some kind of sick joke, right?&rdquo; &ldquo;Not at all, sir. But you do have the option of having Merl stuffed and mounted quite attractively in a pose of your choosing, or we can simply give you his pelt.&rdquo; &ldquo;Stuff Merl! Give me his pelt! Are you insane!?&rdquo; &ldquo;Please calm yourself Mr. Cavendish. We here at the Kind and Gentle School of Obedience are not savages; we are not insensitive to owners such as you. But surely you must realize that the school&rsquo;s reputation is at stake. We simply cannot be viewed as not taking our responsibility seriously. Nor, may I be so candid as to suggest that you, as Merl&rsquo;s owner, would surely not wish it to be known you owned a dog that was so cloddish he couldn&rsquo;t learn to piddle properly, now would you? &ldquo;You! You! ...!&rdquo; &ldquo;Please now Mr. Cavendish, I do urge you again to calm yourself and try to put yourself in my position. Now beating Merl to death has to be put in its proper perspective. I&rsquo;m sure you will, upon calm reflection, come to see the wisdom of my action. Your agitation is understandable, but do be civilized my dear man. After all, didn&rsquo;t your parents beat you when they were lovingly trying to teach you to piddle properly?&rdquo; &ldquo;No! They most certainly did not!&rdquo; Mr. Cavendish shouted. &ldquo;Come, come now, my dear Mr. Cavendish it&rsquo;s perfectly permissible and quite understandable to indulge in some fantasy, but for the sake of sound mental health it does no good to continue in denial and pretend such a thing didn&rsquo;t happen. After all, I came to see the beatings my parents gave me were out of their purest love for me. Denial is very harmful, damage to the psyche and all that, you know. It would be far better to simply admit the truth of the matter rather than continue in such denial. Most harmful, you know, to a well-adjusted and healthy mind toward such things.&rdquo; &ldquo;You sadistic fiend! My parents never beat me to get me to piddle properly and how dare you even suggest such a thing!&rdquo; &ldquo;Oh, dear, I simply cannot deal with you about this issue if you continue in this hysterical vein, Mr. Cavendish. Perhaps it would be better if you simply left Merl&rsquo;s final disposition to me. The choice of the pelt in your case, I would imagine. Yes, that would be best, I&rsquo;m quite certain. I assure you that once you have Merl&rsquo;s pelt in your hands you&rsquo;ll feel much, much better and be able to put all this in its proper perspective. In time you&rsquo;ll come to appreciate the wisdom of my action and the fortuitousness of no longer having to bear the disgrace of being the owner of such a shameless and incorrigible animal. Now my professional recommendation is a nice hot tub, a cup of tea and a good book. You&rsquo;ll feel much, much better, I can assure you.&rdquo; Now being struck dumb and utterly incapacitated by his profound grief, without another word Mr. Cavendish allowed Doctor Diabole to quietly and gently usher him out the door. Postscript: Oakland, California: A man, Damon Valrey, 25, was charged with murder for beating a toddler, Dante Jones, 2, to death because the boy was having problems with potty training. The little boy&rsquo;s body showed signs of previous abuse including burns from scalding water. While I remain skeptical over the tears of Ellen DeGeneres because of using her position in the media to take Marina Batkis to task, suspecting there may be more going on between the two women than a simple failure to adhere to a contract, it should not be forgotten there is a victim here, a poor little doggy that cannot speak for itself. This is where the attention should be focused as all animal lovers agree. These poor creatures have no other voice to speak on their behalf but that which human beings give them. &nbsp; Whether or not there is more going on between Ellen and Marina than we are being told, whether the publicity is the end game or not, the really important issue of pet ownership and responsibility reminds me how careful anyone should be when it comes to the care of pets. Take the case of Mr. Cavendish and his beloved beagle Merl for example that appeared in The Weedpatch Gazette some time ago. After reading this heart moving tale I&rsquo;m sure you will agree the media, and in this case especially Ms. DeGeneres, should display a more responsible grasp of the priorities: Death of a Beagle Mr. Cavendish was very anxious to pick up his pet beagle, Merl, from obedience school. It wasn&rsquo;t that Merl was really disobedient, but he had acquired a few bad habits and Mr. Cavendish, being such a gentle person, just couldn&rsquo;t bring himself to properly discipline his little friend. So, enrolling him in obedience school seemed the best solution. Entering the school&rsquo;s office he was greeted by the headmaster, Doctor Diabole. With a warm handshake, the good Doctor bid Mr. Cavendish welcome and invited him to take a seat. &ldquo;Well, now, Mr. Cavendish, how very kind of you to drop in. I assume you&rsquo;re here to inquire about Merl?&rdquo; &ldquo;Why yes, of course, Doctor Diabole. I know I should have called before coming by, but I have been very anxious to see Merl and I had hoped he would be ready by now for me to take home. It has been very lonely for me without him and I&rsquo;m certain he misses me as well.&rdquo; With a polite soft and delicate cough Doctor Diabole cleared his throat, and averting his eyes from Mr. Cavendish slowly folded his hands on his desk, and with bowed head as though reluctant to speak replied, &ldquo;Ah, my dear Mr. Cavendish I&rsquo;m afraid I have some unfortunate news.&rdquo; &ldquo;What is it Doctor, Merl isn&rsquo;t sick is he?&rdquo; &ldquo;No, no, nothing of the sort. As a matter of fact Merl is dead.&rdquo; Mr. Cavendish was stunned! What? Merl dead? How did it happen? He couldn&rsquo;t believe what he was hearing. Merl dead? Attempting to comprehend the magnitude what he had just heard, tears suddenly filled his eyes and Mr. Cavendish struggled to control himself&hellip; his Merl, dead? It simply could not be true! He could not be hearing Doctor Diabole correctly! There must be some terrible mistake! Doctor Diabole arose, and stepping out from behind his desk went over and put a comforting arm around the shoulders of the sobbing Mr. Cavendish. &ldquo;My dear sir, I&rsquo;m sorry to have to tell you this but Merl proved incorrigible. In fact, he consistently failed an essential course on properly piddling. You know, of course, how a rolled up newspaper is used to gently correct a dog?&rdquo; &ldquo;Yes, I know,&rdquo; Mr. Cavendish replied with an effort past the lump in his throat all the while wiping his eyes with his handkerchief. &ldquo;Well,&rdquo; Doctor Diabole continued, &ldquo;Merl just didn&rsquo;t respond well to such a training technique utilizing a newspaper. So I was forced to apply sterner measures with a whip. But even this proved insufficient and finally left me no choice but to beat him with a baseball bat.&rdquo; &ldquo;WHAT!&rdquo; Mr. Cavendish roared, jerking up from his chair. &ldquo;Now, now, Mr. Cavendish, I understand your concern, I truly do, but really, we simply cannot have dogs piddling just anywhere, now can we?&rdquo; &ldquo;But, but, beating Merl to death with a baseball bat! You can&rsquo;t possibly be serious! This is some kind of sick joke, right?&rdquo; &ldquo;Not at all, sir. But you do have the option of having Merl stuffed and mounted quite attractively in a pose of your choosing, or we can simply give you his pelt.&rdquo; &ldquo;Stuff Merl! Give me his pelt! Are you insane!?&rdquo; &ldquo;Please calm yourself Mr. Cavendish. We here at the Kind and Gentle School of Obedience are not savages; we are not insensitive to owners such as you. But surely you must realize that the school&rsquo;s reputation is at stake. We simply cannot be viewed as not taking our responsibility seriously. Nor, may I be so candid as to suggest that you, as Merl&rsquo;s owner, would surely not wish it to be known you owned a dog that was so cloddish he couldn&rsquo;t learn to piddle properly, now would you? &ldquo;You! You! ...!&rdquo; &ldquo;Please now Mr. Cavendish, I do urge you again to calm yourself and try to put yourself in my position. Now beating Merl to death has to be put in its proper perspective. I&rsquo;m sure you will, upon calm reflection, come to see the wisdom of my action. Your agitation is understandable, but do be civilized my dear man. After all, didn&rsquo;t your parents beat you when they were lovingly trying to teach you to piddle properly?&rdquo; &ldquo;No! They most certainly did not!&rdquo; Mr. Cavendish shouted. &ldquo;Come, come now, my dear Mr. Cavendish it&rsquo;s perfectly permissible and quite understandable to indulge in some fantasy, but for the sake of sound mental health it does no good to continue in denial and pretend such a thing didn&rsquo;t happen. After all, I came to see the beatings my parents gave me were out of their purest love for me. Denial is very harmful, damage to the psyche and all that, you know. It would be far better to simply admit the truth of the matter rather than continue in such denial. Most harmful, you know, to a well-adjusted and healthy mind toward such things.&rdquo; &ldquo;You sadistic fiend! My parents never beat me to get me to piddle properly and how dare you even suggest such a thing!&rdquo; &ldquo;Oh, dear, I simply cannot deal with you about this issue if you continue in this hysterical vein, Mr. Cavendish. Perhaps it would be better if you simply left Merl&rsquo;s final disposition to me. The choice of the pelt in your case, I would imagine. Yes, that would be best, I&rsquo;m quite certain. I assure you that once you have Merl&rsquo;s pelt in your hands you&rsquo;ll feel much, much better and be able to put all this in its proper perspective. In time you&rsquo;ll come to appreciate the wisdom of my action and the fortuitousness of no longer having to bear the disgrace of being the owner of such a shameless and incorrigible animal. Now my professional recommendation is a nice hot tub, a cup of tea and a good book. You&rsquo;ll feel much, much better, I can assure you.&rdquo; Now being struck dumb and utterly incapacitated by his profound grief, without another word Mr. Cavendish allowed Doctor Diabole to quietly and gently usher him out the door. Postscript: Oakland, California: A man, Damon Valrey, 25, was charged with murder for beating a toddler, Dante Jones, 2, to death because the boy was having problems with potty training. The little boy&rsquo;s body showed signs of previous abuse including burns from scalding water. en-us <p>A question of what really hits home.</p> http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153718 http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153718 <p>A question of what really hits home.</p> I often have difficulty with the media's priorities. http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153726 http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153726 I often have difficulty with the media's priorities. <p><em>That was kind of like a story out of the &quot;twilight zone&quot;.&nbsp; Sam I have enjoyed your last two posts.&nbsp; I have to admit, some of your posts lose me to the point of where, it leaves me wondering....what the hell is he talking about?&nbsp; I don't respond, because I don't feel I &quot;have&quot; anything to respond to.&nbsp; I'm a simple minded gal!!!&nbsp; The media's priorities are a little (way) out there.&nbsp; A lot seems to be for reaction purposes only.This &quot;Ellen&quot; thing is definitely getting the reaction. I have always found Ellen to be a funny, laid back kind of woman.&nbsp; The whole story, Ellen's side and the rescue ladies side, has me all mixed up.&nbsp; I'm wondering if both are for reaction purposes solely.&nbsp; I lean towards having sympathy for Ellen.&nbsp; Just because I don't understand the whole &quot;contract&quot; a dog out thing. &nbsp;However, being the public person she is, and her knowing that being a public person, you have your wacko followers, she probably should have taken that into consideration before crying out.&nbsp;&nbsp; I don't think she meant for all the wacko's to come out and start threatening this poor woman, but I do think she was doing a public service speech to get reaction toward this.&nbsp; I&nbsp;don't</em><em>&nbsp;believe the &quot;contract&quot; lady would have been so harsh in her judgement when removing the dog, if it hadn't been a public figure she was dealing with. &nbsp;I think both wanted a reaction.&nbsp; It just wasn't what either were looking for.&nbsp; I think this is a case of &quot;backfire&quot;.</em></p> http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153733 http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153733 <p><em>That was kind of like a story out of the &quot;twilight zone&quot;.&nbsp; Sam I have enjoyed your last two posts.&nbsp; I have to admit, some of your posts lose me to the point of where, it leaves me wondering....what the hell is he talking about?&nbsp; I don't respond, because I don't feel I &quot;have&quot; anything to respond to.&nbsp; I'm a simple minded gal!!!&nbsp; The media's priorities are a little (way) out there.&nbsp; A lot seems to be for reaction purposes only.This &quot;Ellen&quot; thing is definitely getting the reaction. I have always found Ellen to be a funny, laid back kind of woman.&nbsp; The whole story, Ellen's side and the rescue ladies side, has me all mixed up.&nbsp; I'm wondering if both are for reaction purposes solely.&nbsp; I lean towards having sympathy for Ellen.&nbsp; Just because I don't understand the whole &quot;contract&quot; a dog out thing. &nbsp;However, being the public person she is, and her knowing that being a public person, you have your wacko followers, she probably should have taken that into consideration before crying out.&nbsp;&nbsp; I don't think she meant for all the wacko's to come out and start threatening this poor woman, but I do think she was doing a public service speech to get reaction toward this.&nbsp; I&nbsp;don't</em><em>&nbsp;believe the &quot;contract&quot; lady would have been so harsh in her judgement when removing the dog, if it hadn't been a public figure she was dealing with. &nbsp;I think both wanted a reaction.&nbsp; It just wasn't what either were looking for.&nbsp; I think this is a case of &quot;backfire&quot;.</em></p> I wouldn't discount the sincerity of Ellen's concern for animals, and attention is needed to contracts of all kinds; many of which&nbsp;demand lawyers be involved. In Ellen's case, it would seem her lawyers would have been involved from the start. It is difficult to believe anyone in her position would act on anything without the advice of lawyers. http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153737 http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153737 I wouldn't discount the sincerity of Ellen's concern for animals, and attention is needed to contracts of all kinds; many of which&nbsp;demand lawyers be involved. In Ellen's case, it would seem her lawyers would have been involved from the start. It is difficult to believe anyone in her position would act on anything without the advice of lawyers. <p><em>I absolutely think that Ellen was tore up about this whole situation.&nbsp; And...I feel bad for the family that did want the dog, the kids who loved this little dog and for Ellen, because I'm sure she feels responsible for the whole situation.</em></p> http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153777 http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153777 <p><em>I absolutely think that Ellen was tore up about this whole situation.&nbsp; And...I feel bad for the family that did want the dog, the kids who loved this little dog and for Ellen, because I'm sure she feels responsible for the whole situation.</em></p> I agree Olivia, and as you pointed out it simply may have gone further than anyone anticipated. http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153788 http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153788 I agree Olivia, and as you pointed out it simply may have gone further than anyone anticipated. Thanks awsmom, I believe that's a good take on the whole situation including the media that doesn't seem to have the same priorities as us ordinary folks. http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153976 http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_153976 Thanks awsmom, I believe that's a good take on the whole situation including the media that doesn't seem to have the same priorities as us ordinary folks. <p>I think the situation is interesting.&nbsp; Comments seem to come down on the side of&nbsp;&quot;it's a contract, end of story&quot; or &quot;the doggie found a good home even though the contract was ignored&quot;.&nbsp; Some people sound venomous against Ellen and some lambaste the rescue group.&nbsp; I've had people tell me those types of contracts with respect to animals are unenforceable so I'm hoping those folks hear my I-told-you-so's.&nbsp; People enjoy gossip and this is a chat forum.&nbsp; Plus, people enjoy discussing celebrity problems.&nbsp; </p> <p>This situation of &quot;who's right?&quot;&nbsp;reminds me of that three-year-old girl who was ordered into her biological father's custody by the courts.&nbsp; Remember that?&nbsp; Bio-mom had given the newborn up for adoption without telling bio-dad.&nbsp; After three years of legal wrangling between bio-dad and adoptive parents the child was given to bio-dad.&nbsp; Both parties had good intentions and yet the little girl at the center of the controversy was the big loser.&nbsp; </p> http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_154133 http://www.tehachapinews.com/home/Blog/samheath/16199/#c_154133 <p>I think the situation is interesting.&nbsp; Comments seem to come down on the side of&nbsp;&quot;it's a contract, end of story&quot; or &quot;the doggie found a good home even though the contract was ignored&quot;.&nbsp; Some people sound venomous against Ellen and some lambaste the rescue group.&nbsp; I've had people tell me those types of contracts with respect to animals are unenforceable so I'm hoping those folks hear my I-told-you-so's.&nbsp; People enjoy gossip and this is a chat forum.&nbsp; Plus, people enjoy discussing celebrity problems.&nbsp; </p> <p>This situation of &quot;who's right?&quot;&nbsp;reminds me of that three-year-old girl who was ordered into her biological father's custody by the courts.&nbsp; Remember that?&nbsp; Bio-mom had given the newborn up for adoption without telling bio-dad.&nbsp; After three years of legal wrangling between bio-dad and adoptive parents the child was given to bio-dad.&nbsp; Both parties had good intentions and yet the little girl at the center of the controversy was the big loser.&nbsp; </p>