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Dear C.C.:  What's the best way to help my husband understand me? I can't seem to get him to listen, I mean really hear what I'm saying? Dear Wife: I find it becoming more clear as couples try to resolve their marital issues, that men aren't the only ones who don't listen. Men will often say, “She says I don't listen and the only thing she wants is to be heard, but she doesn't really listen to me.” So if you can, you might start out by really listening to him. There is a wonderful book by Dr. Warren Farrell, Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say, that might be helpful to you to read along with several other excellent books identifying mens' conditioning, responsibilities, expectations of a marriage, and suggestions on how to change him without just getting him ready for the next woman. In the not too distant past, research on media commercials identified that in female-male interactions, 100 percent of the time, the 'bad guy' was the man. So my suggestion is...
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