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Posted by editor Tue Feb 20, 2007 11:14:49 PST
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0 responses 0 comments Wisdom of the week – If someone is too tired to give you a smile, leave one of your own, because no one needs a smile as much as those who have none to give.        
Rabbi S.R. Hirsch

Dear C.C.:  I’m a single mom (a good one, I think) but I'm tired of the usual remarks from male office workers about always getting ripped off by garage mechanics when I take my car in. What is it with men and single women???

Dear Single Mom: There are always those men who want you to think they've gotten the “good deal.” If he’s approachable, you might ask him to take your car in the next time. Or if there is a close male friend, offer to buy him lunch in return for taking it in for its next repair job.   Or you can always spend time and learn more about your car. Honestly, it would not be a high priority for me…too many other things to do. Paying a little extra for not having to learn a new trade might be worth it, but l really doubt if your regular mechanic is going to take advantage of you. You could also tell your boasting friend that you've even thought of tipping your mechanic, you like his work so much.

Dear C.C.:  I keep hearing so much about “positive thinking” so I feel like I'm a failure when I 'm having a hard time. What’s the best way to love myself when things go wrong?

Dear Concerned: Just do it. It really isn’t as easy as it’s made to sound, but the truth is that Reality is as it is, and you can choose to see it in any light you wish. Put a positive light on it all and you’ll soon see some changes. It doesn’t mean you have to believe it at first, but you do have to feel it...think some good thoughts and remember that those thoughts of being unlovable are of your own choosing. Simply make another choice. Mistakes are for learning….allow yourself to learn from them but do not turn them into who you are. 

You are loveable always. Please don’t even consider otherwise.
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